Erotic and Sensual

5 Secrets of Getting a Man to Open Up

2008-10-13T18:47:00.001-04:00

Most men feel that women are very critical of them, and they worry that if they do open up

Often, sharing secret fantasies will lead to rejection and will cause marriage to break down. Not judging your partner means allowing him to say what is on his mind, and simply being willing to hear it. This does not mean that you don't have an opinion or that you can't offer it at some point. In order for him open up to you, he has to feel truly accepted for who he is, not for who you may want him to be.

Let your inhibitions go...

2008-10-12T15:41:00.003-04:00

To my lovely wife,

We lay down together and letting our carnal emotions take over our bodies by putting our minds at ease by allowing us to lead each other into never ending ecstasy. Unspoken agreements invite hands wandering in an uncontrollable passion within sensual forces. I am biting softly on your neck so I am able to release your inhibitions and provoke to to take advantage of me. Hot sexual senses provokes kinky desires, look inside my eyes, mind and soul, because you know me very well. Taste my inner being of my passion, I want you to experience me by tasting my sweet love and I want you to enjoy my love and know me from within without limits. Explore me completely without restrictions. I dare you to explore what in your mind sexually and do them. Take me, I am yours. Use me, I love to please you.

You say, "I've never done this before."

I responded, "Do it."

You say, "But, you don't know what it is."

I say, "I love you so much and I want you to do it. You know how kinky I am when I am with you sexually."

You say with a smile, "Okay, you asked for it."

I smiled back and winked, silently assuring you everything will be fine. Any inhibitions you had earlier faded into the embers of our passionate kissing that our bodies are now burning with passion. As our bodies meld together, our two flames become one. No restriction and completely passionate.

With my complete love, I release you from any inhibitions you have sexually. In your erotic brain, wanting to manifest themselves into material reality that sensual scenes of you played over and over again are becoming reality. Sweet surrender. Appeasing each others' appetites & fantasies.

You look at me seductively with a sexy smile which tells me that I am in trouble. Trouble I don't mind pleasing my lovely wife. I give in to my desire and allow you to ravage me. Your love that is very intoxicatingly sweet, very sensual, mesmerizing that is allowing your thoughts to be free, making love to me without inhibitions.

You know my weak spots, when you were kissing and nibbling my peaked nipples. Putting myelf under your control. Make me tremble, make me pant heavy and make me want to be hurt by you.

I see your eyes and saw how sexy you look when you are feeling sexually free. Wanting to use me sexually as you see fit. I see your nipples are perky hard, wanting my touch. I can feel your wet pussy against my body.

I hear you say, "You are making me having powerful orgasms and boy, you are in trouble because I don't want to stop until I am completely satisfied".

I responded, "Go for it sweetie, I am yours and use me as you dreamed about in your erotic mind that you wanted to do freely."

You smiled and then began attacking me. Boy, I found this hot and sexy.

Nipples

2008-10-12T14:59:00.001-04:00

Nipple eroticism is beautiful. I love to have my nipples because they are sensitive
I love my nipples to be played with properly; soft sucking and light feathering, pinched, pulled and sucked hard. I love the way my wife play with my nipples.

A reminder why I am here.................

2008-10-12T11:46:00.002-04:00

I am one of those bisexuals who commits to one person while still attracted to other men and women, but do not act on any attraction except my wife. The key to successful marriages are far more likely when there is complete honesty, respect and a level of compassion for each other. My wife and I have a strong relationship and we are open to each other. She knows of my strong desires of being with men. She listens to my fantasies. Most of my fantasies are so compatible with my wife's fantasies, including my bisexual fantasies. In order to have a warm, joyful, fulfilling relationship in which shared experiences encourage mutual growth and happiness is being open-minded with loving care heart. Confide all of who you really are. No masks. Share everything, including your wildest fantasies. Fantasies aren’t good or bad and there should be no judgment involved. Having a wild fantasy doesn’t mean it has to be expressed in reality. In order to have a wonderful exclusive and monogamy sexual relationship, we are to feel free sexually and feel sexual without restrictions.

I have a blog, and this blog is probably a good place to place my private thoughts and knowning that hardly anyone reads this, its a blessing or a curse.

Deep thoughts about my personal experience in positive choices that are right for me rather than living a bisexual life. I don't act on it. At times, choosing not to act on those feelings and not embracing can be difficult. I am thankful that I have a wife , who do not seek to force her viewpoint on me, telling me what I "should" do. I just wanted to be aware of alternatives to living a bisexual life that are positive and life-affirming with my own values, morals and beliefs. My wife and I are so compatible with everything in our marriage. Unlike most men who don't confess to their wives, I am able to accept as I am. There is hope for me husband and my marriage. Many men with those issues keep them secret. One thing I am thankful for God's blessings in our marriage. Sex is a gift from God and I am happily married and sexually satisfied being with my wife, best friend and sex partner. It's important for us to negotiate how we are going to talk about our sexual relationship together. To talk honestly about our sexuality, sexual preferences, fears, feelings about our bodies, struggles, joys. This is REAL intimacy, deep friendship with trust and faithfulness.

I also have my own issues with bisexuality in my Christian faith. What we do a married couple is between husband and wife is privileged and gifted.

Interesting Link

2008-10-12T11:24:00.002-04:00

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM BONNIE KAYE

If you are a gay/bisexual man who is seeking to come out to your wife or straight girlfriend, I know how difficult this step can be. Remember, you have no choice in your sexuality, but you do have a choice about keeping this secret from your mate.

By making the choice to be honest, you are showing the greatest form of love to the woman you love. There is no "good" or "right" time to reveal this news. However, the sooner you take the step, the easier it will be for you to move ahead in your life and have peace of mind.

If you need help on how to proceed, I have gay husbands who have lived through this experience and will be happy to give you the assistance that you need. I will be here for you at any time you need me.
I will also be here for your wife when she needs support after you reveal this news.

Remember, there is nothing worse than living a lie. The sooner you can reveal the truth, the better your lives will be. You will go through a lot of pain and turmoil in the beginning, but you will be doing both of you the biggest favor of your lives. To get support for your next step, just drop me a note and I will start setting you up with the support you need immediately.

BY BONNIE KAYE

Straight Wives a site to give additional support to women who are married to or involved with men who are gay or who identify themselves as “Bisexual.”

Predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual?

2008-10-12T10:58:00.003-04:00

Interestng post I found in this website: Married Gay

Does it really matter?

There is great danger in trying to put a person's sexuality into a "post box" such as homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual. In so doing, we may be restricting our interpretation of a person's true sexuality. (See Sexuality Labels page)

The question has been asked,

"Surely, if a person is married and has homosexual tendencies, they are really bisexual?"

It can also be asked,

"If a person is considered to be bisexual, even though they can have sex with both sexes, should they not be content, in marriage, only to have sex with their spouse?"

The answer to this last question must address the needs of the person concerned - most extra-marital activity is as a result of a need to go outside the marriage. Whether a true "bisexual" should be content with sex with their spouse alone is subject to conjecture.

Fantasy Part 2

2008-10-11T14:35:00.002-04:00

We are kinky and very sexual couple. We don't limit ourselves when it comes to sex. We explore almost anything as long as they just us and not seriously hurting each other. Over the years of marriage, we loved experimenting with sex. We are both very open- minded and have tried many different kinks. I keep myself shaved because my wife loves nothing better than to lick and suck my cock and bald pubic. I adore my wife's hot mouth on my hard cock. When my wife asked me specifically if I still fantaties about sucking man's, I admitted and said "yes". She loves it when I am open-minded and very kinky. She realized that although I am truly bisexual, I am also submissive to her and obey her. I belong to her. My cock belongs to her. My body belongs to her. My ass belongs to her.

Back to the story. Jen had an idea and asked if we really want to get to know each other that we should play a game of Truth or Dare somewhere private. We left and went to Jen and Bob's place since they live closer. When arriving, they served some drinks and smoke, then we went over the rules for the game. We would use a deck of cards to determine each person's choice. A black card for Truth, a red card for Dare. If you drew a joker, you could take your pick. No one could pass a turn, and lying was a no no.

Carole wins the first deal and she picks up a card, and chose to to ask a truth question to Bob: "What is the kinkiest thing you ever did?"

He responsed: "I have been begging my wife to wear a strap on and use me however she wants. I so desperately want my wife to make me suck a realistic looking strap on cock, teach me to deep throat while holding my head and face fucking me. I wanted her to bend me over, push my face into a pillow and push her strap on into my virgin ass. I would even enjoy it if she made me wear a pair of her panties while she did all of this. She did them for me and it was wonderful"

My wife responded, "Jim wanted me to do that also. We need to get a strap-on."

It was Bob's turn and he drew a black card. His question to me was: "Have you ever been attracted to a member of the same sex? Explain."

I answered: "I found myself being turned on by the thought that another man found me sexually attractive and seduce me. I just want a good sensual and erotic kinky sex with emotions involved. Not afraid to explore everything including rimming and anal sex".

We heard Jen moaned and said "That's one of my fantasies, to find a man who will do that to my Bob while I watch".

Carole winked and Jen and said "I like to see that too".

Now, it is Jen's turn and she picked a card, she chose to ask a truth question and asked my wife: "Carole, do you like watching straight porno or gay/bi porno?"

My wife responded: "Easily, gay/bi porno because I found them sexy"

Bob responded by saying: "Good, we have plenty of those that we can watch later."

To be continued.........................

Erotic Bisexual Videos

2008-10-11T13:59:00.001-04:00

We are looking for a good erotic and sensual bisexual hardcore videos but they are hard to find. Many of them are are pure sex and not enough eroticism and sensualism.

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008

2008-10-11T11:38:00.000-04:00

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008

Lots of interesting sexual links :)

Fantasy Part 1

2008-10-09T18:15:00.004-04:00

My wife and I are sexually adventurous and open-minded. We have always openly shared fantasies that we make an effort to realize all of our fantasies. We both love to be tied up, although, I am much more submissive than my wife. We both enjoy the BDSM lifestyle, at least recreationally but we don't do it often.

I know my wife is most turned on by gay sex and she loves watching man sexually dominates another man. I would like to go to a gay bar and watch two good looking men kissing in the dark. At the dark corner, one guy dropped to his knees in front took a cock in his hand and gave it a few slow strokes as he licked his lips and looked up at his buddy. He extended his tongue and licked the head of his cock. He continued to stroke the shaft as his tongue swirled around the plum sized cock head. Then he took the cock and swallowed it, fucking more of it down his throat with each rhythmic bob of his head. Drool ran down his chin as he grasped his ass with both hands forcing more of the thick cock down his throat. I couldn't believe what was happening and my wife who is sitting next to me and put her hand between my thighs and rubbed up to my crotch. She said, "I know you love cock, baby. You gonna suck cock for me?"

My wife said to a guy next to her, "My hubby and I have been sharing and testing a lot of fantasies lately, and as you know, I really want to see him getting fucked by another guy." The guy smiled and looked at me, said "Hi, I'm Bob." I held my hand out and said "I'm Jim and this is my wife Carole". His handshake was very firm, and he didn't seem to be in a hurry to pull his hand back. Then a woman came behind him and kissed Bob on the cheek. Bob turned and said, "this is my wife, Jen". We said "hi". Bob explained to Jen about what my wife said recently and Jen smiled and said "So does Bob". We began talking together for awhile over drinks.

To be continued

Repeats of my previous posts..........

2008-10-04T14:29:00.001-04:00

I am one of those bisexuals who commits to one person while still attracted to other men and women, but do not act on any attraction except my wife. The key to successful marriages are far more likely when there is complete honesty, respect and a level of compassion for each other. My wife and I have a strong relationship and we are open to each other. She knows of my strong desires of being with men. She listens to my fantasies. I get hard thinking about getting laid by a man but I am keeping this as a dream, not a reality. Coming out bisexual is no easy matter and so far my wife and one of my daughters knows about me. I am very much interested in looking for friendship with married men who are also bisexual without getting into sex.

Anyway, when discussing sex, its very liberating to be open and letting my wife know that I am talking about something very important to her. You never know what your spouse likes unless you talk. Most of my fantasies are so compatible with my wife's fantasies, including my bisexual fantasies. In order to have a warm, joyful, fulfilling relationship in which shared experiences encourage mutual growth and happiness is being open-minded with loving care heart. Confide all of who you really are. No masks. Share everything, including your wildest fantasies. Fantasies aren’t good or bad and there should be no judgment involved. Having a wild fantasy doesn’t mean it has to be expressed in reality. In order to have a wonderful exclusive and monogamy sexual relationship, we are to feel free sexually and feel sexual without restrictions.

I have a blog, and this blog is probably a good place to place my private thoughts and knowning that hardly anyone reads this, its a blessing or a curse.

Being scottish, the word kilt comes from the Scottish word kilt meaning to tuck up the clothes around the body. A Kilt is worn knee socks and sporran - a large pouch used to weigh down the front. Kilts returned to prominence during the romantic revival in the 19th century. The Scottish kilt is a symbol of brave and independent masculinity. Even Sean Connery who is scottish wears a kilt. I understand that women including my wife who find it VERY ATTRACTIVE to see a man wearing a kilt. I ran into some blogs that wives were trying to get their husbands, who is Scottish and trying to get him to wear a kilt for her! I want to get one for my wife so she can have "free access" to her toys. :)

Another Fantasy

2008-09-27T14:23:00.002-04:00

My sexy wife let me run my hands over her body and I felt her shiver as I touched her pussy. As usual, she was every bit as horny as me. I sucked on her nipples and carressed her breasts. She tapped my head and told me that it was time to continue to make our fantasies come true. As I looked into her eyes I caught a glimpse of a shadow. She kissed me and then moved off to the side. Our friend, "Sean" was at the foot of the bed naked, with similar body shape as mine, standing right there before me. I nodded at him and he smiled.

I was stunned because I thought we would just have fantasies and watch bi or gay videos. I know we have been talking about that it would be interesting to see what it was like to be with a guy, that it would be about the sexual experience.

Sean moved toward me, licking his lips and told me my cock looks tasty. My wife smiled and said, "taste it". He sucked my cock for a bit and then kissed my lips lightly and then pushed my head down his chest and toward his nipples. I ran my tongue over his chest, his body was so hard. We got off the bed and he pushed me down onto my knees. My wife was nearby, encouraging me to fulfill my fantasy and could tell she was getting really turned on.

I lightly touched Sean's cock with the outside of my fingers and then his balls. He grabbed the back of my head and pushed his growing cock at my lips. I eagerly opened my mouth and let him slowly push in his now thick shaft.

My wife urging me on, "Oh yeah, that's it. Go on... Suck his cock."

I cupped his balls in one hand and gently, using only my tongue, licked softly along the entire underside of his hard-on. I lifted his hard cock upwards to reveal his smooth balls, which I sucked on to my wet tongue and let roll around my mouth. Then, in one smooth, upward motion, licked to the very tip of his cock. Sean lightly moaned.

Sean lifted me up and kissed passionately. Sean then pinned me down on the bed and pushed his hard body against mine. Our cocks were rubbing together. He whispered in my ear "it's time for you to feel what a real man is like. It's time for you to take his first cock in the ass. Yes, your wife told me that you are a virgin and I want to be your first" .

"You want it bad don't you?"

Sean place me on my back, placing a pillow under my ass. His hard thighs pressed against mine as he ground his cock against my leg. He then started kissing nipples, down my stomach to my ass and then buried his face in it. He grabbed my ass cheeks, pulling them apart, his tongue licking from the base of my balls to my hole.

I could see my wife when she said "I know you enjoy the rimming. I love the way you rim my ass when you were rimming me. He is getting your love canal ready for cock and you will be ready for what I know you have always wanted. I cannot wait to watch you being fucked for the first time."

The sensations were incredible, as he licked and probed my anus. Sean hit a spot with his tongue that almost made me cum. I was experiencing too much pleasure now to think. Then Sean's tongue moved out. He then said "you want it now don't you?"

I nodded yes.

I felt the tip of his cock on my hole and then as he pushed it in. It did not hurt as much as I expected, maybe because Sean had done such a good job rimming me and opening me up. His cock started to push in deeper with each thrust. I heard my wife's muffled screams as she orgasmed and again as fingered her clit while she was watching. All I cared about was that his cock was in me and how good it felt. My legs are over his shoulders, sliding his cock deep inside me. I looked at my wife and smiled. She was definitely enjoying the show as much as I was enjoying being a part of it. Sean began to fuck me again, harder and faster than before. After a few minutes, I felt his cock stiffen and twitch inside me. Staring into my eyes, he exploded in orgasm. He was moaning loudly as he continued to thrust, ordering me to clench my ass and drain every last drop from his cock.

My wife came over and kissed me. "You have no idea how hot that was. You made me so horny. I must have cum a dozen times. I know you enjoyed it too."

We jumped in the shower and I ate her pussy out while the water streamed over our heads and bodies. Being fucked by Sean had made me incredible horny and had yet to cum. We then made it into bed and I fucked her like I had never fucked anyone before. It truly was all my fantasies come true that night.

Monogamous-minded bi guy

2008-04-27T01:01:00.002-04:00

I am aware that there are many straight men who have bisexual-ish urges and resisted. I hope some bisexual will make themselves known and tell me how they live and I hope they live in Ohio.

Story Tag: bisexual Stories

2008-04-27T00:14:00.001-04:00

Literotica: Bi-Husbands

Literotica: Bisexual male

Bisexual Art

2008-04-26T21:54:00.001-04:00

Continuing Burning Fantasy.............

2008-04-12T13:38:00.002-04:00

Our friendship is growing and I like that idea that we all accept each other for "who" they are and not "what" they are. Over time, the two of us became closer friends and we started doing things together such as golfing together, vacationing and dining out with our wives. Over time, we passed from best friends to lovers with our wives' blessings. Our relationship is very discreet and no one knows except our wives. This is better that way because this is private and this is between the 4 of us only. We all could watch bi or gay videos together. We could play cards together or simply go out like any other couples together.

I can't wait to share my fantasies about sex between him and I. I am too busy thinking and dreaming about them. :)

Ohio Bisexual

2008-04-12T12:56:00.002-04:00

Any happily married men who who live in Columbus are and are bisexual but not active sexually with another man looking for friendship. Please let me know and we can develop a small group who can get together at a coffee place or similar. This will NOT be a sexual hookup at all. There will be no sexual activties. This will be strictly friendship and sexual will happen on its own between two friends outside group's meetings.

This is only for bisexual married men whose wives knows and are very supportive.

Please respond with a comment and tell me what you think.

Thanks.

Burning Fantasy.............

2008-04-12T11:44:00.003-04:00

Someone was knocking on the door and my wife yelled, "can you get that for me, I think its Carl". I thought, "Who is Carl?". So I answered the door and saw a very attractive man who said he is Carl so I let him in. I let my wife knows that Carl is here. Then I said "hi" to Carl and he responded, "Hi, you must be Jim." with a smile. Before my wife could come out, Carl did something that shocked me by pulling me into his arms and kissed me right on the lips. I got hard right away and Carl pressed his tongue against my closed lips, I melted and opened by returning the kiss with my tongue.

After breaking the kiss, Carl apologized and told me that my wife told him about me that when I opened the door, he noticed that I undressing him with my eyes which made him make the move.

My wife came out and noticed us. She asked, "Did you two kissed without me watching?". We both nodded yes. Then, she said, "Now, both of you get to know each other before taking your clothes off, I want you two have a lasting friendship before getting sexual." We both agreed with her.

I asked my wife, "How did you two meet?". Carl responded for her, "We met at one of the dance's performance and my wife, your wife and I got talking about dancing. One day, we kinda opened up who we are and when your wife heard me saying that I am bisexual, she sat down with me and told me about you".

I asked, "Where's your wife today?"

My wife answered with a smile, "You will meet her one day, today I want you to meet Carl and get to know each other. One day, his wife and I would love to watch".

Carl added, "My wife and I are sexually adventurous and open-minded. We have always openly shared fantasies. My wife always makes an effort to realize all of our fantasies. We are not swingers by any means but when your wife spoke to us about you two, I could not resist the opportunity that your wife was giving us. My wife encouraged me to take it and here I am today", he said with a smile.

My wife responded by saying, "Carl is very much like you, he had experiences with other men but not as much like you. He knows about us before we got married and his wife got interested. I explained to her that you are definitely not gay. Being gay has more to do with who you are emotionally attracted than it does with whom you have sex. I just know that you do like to have sex with another man, I think it is different for you than when you are with me."

I asked her, "What do you mean by that?"

Carl answered, "When my wife is with me, she can feel an emotional intensity with me which sometimes it seems like I drains a little of my soul when we make love. However, with me being with another man, you for an example, I think it is more like for me to be sharing a deep bond of friendship more than emotional love."

I nodded in agreement and I said "Yes, that's how I feel about men. I prefer to be emotional in love with my wife and I love making love to my wife. Sometimes, I desire bonding friendship with another male without restricting myself in a sexual way. I just want an open minded bonding which can include sexual pleasures".

Carl answered, "Yes, that's how I am too".

My wife smiled and said "I think we will have a wonderful friendship and finally, we have a couple we can have a lasting friendship.

We all smiled and agreed nodding our heads.

My wife announced "Jim and Carl, go out and do whatever you want to spend time together. Carl's wife is coming over and we are going shopping together." So, Carl and I left in his car and went out to eat and went to a ball game. We talked about alot of things, not just about sex but rather about anything that men often talk about. We were having a good time bonding and sharing our thoughts and feelings.

My wife and Carl's wife were talking as well. Carl's wife was explaing to my wife that, 'she is relieved this is all in the open. She feel like a great weight has been lifted off of her. She added that "the idea of my husband being with another man, I found so erotic. I have even begun to wonder what it would be like to have a special friend like John has in Jim". My wife responded in agreement about my relationship with Carl.

To be continued.............

Bi men are are to find

2008-04-05T16:18:00.002-04:00

There are many bisexual men out there, but they’re afraid to admit it. I don't have any bisexual male to be friends with, to confide in, and share each other's secrets.

This is a shame.

Another Fantasy

2008-02-09T15:52:00.000-05:00

I've felt attracted to very fee men I've met but I kept this to myself and my wife. My wife and I went to the video store to buy or rent gay and bisexual porn DVDs and watched them together. We keep this between us. I'd watch a few bisexual porn videos whenever I got the urge to be with a man and this is a good way to avoid men. If my wife and I decided to have a 3some, I'd rather be in a two-men, one-woman threesome than with two women. Male on male sex turned me on a lot more than lesbian sex and so does my wife. It's the action between the men that she likes watching because females doing "it together" don't do it for her as much. This woman is very kinky. We've had a lot of fun together. She gives great head and love sucking my cock. I am a good cock-sucker as she is. My fantasies became more and more about being with my wife where the man was bi as I am; I never really had any desire to be alone with a man. One of my biggest fanatasies is to find myself in ecstasy as I am between a man and my wife. Having my cock deep in wife's hot, willing pussy as a man' long, large cock worked inside my ass that the three of us moaned in practical unison.

Would be nice to hear a man pick me up and kiss me, pushing his tongue into my mouth. His hands squeezed my buttocks, and he telling me again how long he had wanted me. Having his arms wrapping around me and pressing me against firmly to my body. We both could feel our cocks getting hard together as we hug. My wife sat and watch as this man kiss around my neck and down my chest; slowly scooting down my body. He flicked his tongue over my nipples and sucked on them gently. Then he pulled me onto the bed and made my lie back. We ground our hips against each other. God how I loved having our cocks and balls rubbing together!

My wife is watching with heavy breaking.

To be continued.

Another fantasy.

2008-01-20T17:14:00.000-05:00

While I was watching the bi-sex video, my wife cupped my balls and stroked my cock through my pants.

"It turns you on doesn't it?" She said.

"I can't deny it, it does." I said.

My wife said, "I have a surprise for you".

I responded, "Oh, what is it?"

She said, "You know that friend of yours, Mike?"

I answered, "Yes, he's bi and also married. Great guy for a friend. Why?"

She answered, "Well, he and his wife are here. His wife and I want to watch you two make love".

My eyes perked and looked at my wife and asked, "Are you serious?".

She said "I am serious".

I said, "I am ready to have sex with another man, especially Mike is the man."

My wife smiled and said, "I knew that would be your answer." Then she walked out and brought them back.

Ok guys, let's get naked." She said.

We both stripped down, Mike stripped much quicker than me. He was hung about the same as me and his cock looks delicious. I grabbed Mike's cock and began slowly stroking it from head to base. Mike returned the favor for me, then got into a rhythm and began jerking off his hard cock.

Our wives yelled, "Don't cum yet."

We stopped and fell back into each other experiencing the nakedness of each other and began kissing passionally. We could hear the ladies moan loudly and one of them said "that is so sexy." Mike and I embraced and kissed wildly as our naked bodies and cocks rubbed against each other. Both cocks were hard and warm and sticky with pre-cum.

Mike then kissed a trail down my chest, sucking each of my nipples and making them hard. Then he moved down towards my stomach to my throbbing cock. He was gentle yet firm with his sucking, engulfing my cock and pulling off in long sucks and then licking my shaft and balls before resuming sucking as I play with my nipples with my fingers which my wife loves watching playing with them.

Then Mike came up and we began kissing again and we moaned in delight as our hands worked magic on the other's cock. I know it is my turn to please him and wanting to taste that unique flavor and the horny sensation of sucking off another guy's cock. As I was sucking, I noticed he grabbed lube tube from the nightstand as if he was getting to fuck me. He told me to stop and lean against the bed and spead my legs.

I felt my ass hole being touched as he dipped a finger in and inserted it into my virgin rosebud, pressing inside gently. I reminded him, "I have had didos in me but never had a real cock in me so please be gentle".

He said, "You will feel no pain and you will want to get fucked again."

After lubing my rosebud, he then started lubing his hard cock. Soon, I felt unusual sensation of hurting but with wonderful pleasure as Mike humped his cock firmly and deeper into my ass. I heard my wife moaned and said, "Jim, you look so hot and sexy. I can see your cock throbbing hard as Mike is fucking you".

Mike kissed on the back of my neck, whispering what a sexy lover I am as he fucked deeper and faster into my ass. The two us were huffing and moaning. Mike was saying so the women can hear "Jim, you really make me feel sexy. I want to be your sexy male lover, if our wives let us". For the women, hearing and sighing as Mike cock's fucked in & out of the my ass were wonderful and erotic. Then he kissed a soft-like feminine kiss on my neck and back as he is humping inside me. I could feel his balls slapping against me as he fuck. Then, we rolled around and kissed as passionate and loving as two lovers could. I was on my back while Mike is over me like a missionary position. My hard cock is touching his stomach as he press his cock back into my rosebud and started fucking me as if I was a woman. As I lay on my back, Mike kissing me passionately before kissing my neck and shoulders. He is fucking me beautifully and I could feel his balls slappying aginast my ass while my cock was rubbing against his stomach. Mike came back to my lips and started kissing me passionately again. I responded by kissing back as I wrapped my arms around his neck while holding him tight so he can fuck me deeper. My cock was getting good rubbing from his stomach that I could cum anytime. Mike began to fuck me in firm long hard strokes as I moaned. Soon, I was spewing my warm creamy juices all over Mike's stomach. Mike felt them and moaned loud by saying, "that's hot" and then he came. We subsided as we stayed joined and kissed tenderly, telling each other how hot and wonderful it was. We were coated in a thin layer of sweat and cum that we both felt fulfilled and affectionate, both of our penises looks and feels tender, warm & glowing.

The women came over and looked at us with big smile faces. We could see that they are naked and one of them said, "Now, please please us". My wife came over to me and started kissing me while Mike's wife did the same. We were making love to our wives on the same bed.

To be continued.

Bisexual Erotic Novels

2008-01-07T23:51:00.000-05:00

Ann Herendeen: Why I Wrote A Bisexual Regency Romance

Why a bisexual hero? Because gay guys are the absolute hottest!

I know I’m not the only woman turned on by the idea of two men together.

A word that keeps coming up in discussions of my novel is “ménage”—and that can sound a little scary. Because it’s a bisexual romance, ultimately my hero meets that one special man as well as woman. Now, there are many ways of being bisexual; and many bisexual people have relationships with only one partner at a time. The reason I chose to have my hero involved with both a man and a woman simultaneously is that, for some of us, the MMF situation is the ultimate fantasy: being that one special woman in a relationship with two men.

Christianity and Sex

2008-01-05T14:33:00.000-05:00

God created sex however the bibical rules on sexual behaviour for men and women are often vague. The first rule of sex in marriage club is that you have to have sex with your marital spouse and no other. When a couple makes love, they are entering into a state of oneness; it's a oneness described in Genesis, when a man shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh (Genesis 2:24). Sex in marriage should always center around love. Whether simply for enjoyment or for purposes of procreation, love must be the central point of contact for the two. Apostle Paul wrote, "The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to 'stand up for your rights.' Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out" (1 Corinthians 7:3-4, The Message). The gift of sharing your sexuality with each other is to bring oneness, joy, love, nurture, and fun to your relationship. It's important for each couple to negotiate how they are going to talk about their sexual relationship together. To talk honestly about our sexuality, sexual preferences, fears, feelings about our bodies, struggles, joys—this is intimacy, deep friendship with trust and faithfulness. The most important sexual organ is your brain. What's happening in your mind affects your responses physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Using your imagination and playing together are important for a healthy marriage and sexual relationship. If you're both having fun, neither of you feels degraded, there is no physical or psychological pain, you are growing in your oneness, and expressing your love for each other, then enjoy! Whatever you do to enhance your sexual enjoyment, be sure it draws you more deeply into passionate oneness with your mate and doesn't create barriers in your relationship with God.

Anal sex is confusing to many Christians because of the attention paid to the Bible’s condemnation of homosexual acts. I think it is important to realize that these often quoted scriptures refer only to sexual acts between two men. Nowhere does the Bible forbid anal sex between a male and female. Like anal sex, oral sex is the subject of much confusion and disagreement among Christians. There is nothing in the Bible that forbids engaging in acts of oral-genital contact. In Christian discussions concerning oral sex, the Song of Solomon is most frequently cited as an example of scriptural allusion to oral sex.

As for shaving, nothing in the bible that forbits shaving. Shaving can enhance the sensuality of lovemaking for both the husband and wife. Freshly shaved areas are very sensitive, and allow more skin contact and sensation. Many couples enjoy the feeling of skin-on-skin during intercourse and find it makes them feel closer.

My wife knows about my "secret" with my homosexual desires and past encounters. Many men with those issues keep them secret, which gives the behavior more power and control. The confession and vulnerability also allow you to provide support and encouragement. Open communication is important.

Prostate Play

2007-12-28T22:28:00.000-05:00

This blog (Shay's "The S Spot") posted a nice blog about Prostate Play

Being a Master

2007-12-28T20:44:00.000-05:00

Often I wonder if my wife keep having strange, disturbing, recurring, and intense fantasies of having me being masterful having my way with her. I am going to find out during my plays with her. In over time I will gain insight into what works and what doesn't which use wisdom to developing rules. Rules are meant to be protective, instructive, and helpful. As I learn along the way, I will set benchmarks and progress points. I need to remember that as a rookie Dominant, I can make up punishments and often will miss a detail or two.

If you any of you have any recommendations, please let me know.

Being a Master for my beautiful voluptuous wife

2007-12-28T19:56:00.000-05:00

I am trying to learn to be a dom since I truly believe that my wife wants me to lead in the bedroom. I am going to list some links in this post for me to refer to:

A Beginner's Guide to Dominating her
First Time Being Dominated
Play Night discovery
BDSM on a Budget
Guidelines for Ownership D/s vs. Romance in a Marriage

Shaved Last night

2007-12-23T16:41:00.001-05:00

Last night was very erotic for both of us (my wife and I). She watched and even joined me by helping me shave. She even helped me shaved my anus area. I am very smooth and my wife now desires MORE to give me blow jobs. She gives great blow jobs but with shaved pubic area, this makes her more hotter and get lost orally. (grin). She mentioned that last night's was unforgettable pleasure of silky-smooth skin while touching me all over down there.

Your Erotic Personality

2007-12-21T19:42:00.000-05:00

I took Sage Vivant's Erotic Personality Quiz and discovered I'm a Bottom!

What is your Erotic Personality? Find out now.

I do enjoy abandoning myself to my lover that I like the idea of surrender and prefer to let my wife call the shots.

Bisexuality FAQ

2007-12-20T21:35:00.000-05:00

Interesting Blog about Bisexuality. (Click on Title)

Cock Rings are the most common of the Sex Toys for men

2007-12-20T19:30:00.000-05:00

Cock rings also has D/s aspects which they refer this as ornamental cock ring which designed to be enjoyable to wear and at the same time attractive to look at.

The main role for Cock rings: They apply pressure to either the penis or the genitals, partially restricting blood-flow in the process. Another reason for cock rings is that the one that encircles the base of the penis and top of the scrotum, providing a gentle "squeeze" to the entire area which many men find this pressure pleasurable. Some men likes the particular sensation of tightness as if they can feel as though someone has taken hold of you in an intimate grip.

You may want to trim or shave the hair around the penis base and/or scrotum to decrease the likelihood of catching hair in the ring or snaps.

Medical experts have one warning: Rings for erection maintenance are not recommended for any longer than 30 minutes.

How to find the right size: To find the diameter of a snug-fitting ring, measure the distance around the cock and balls (at the base, behind the scrotum), and then divide by 3.1. Don't go smaller than that. For an example, assume the circumference of my cock and balls behind my scrotum is 6 inches. Dividing 6 / 3.1 = 1.93 inches. Therefore, I do not want to purchase a cock ring with a diameter of less that 1.9 inches.

My Nipples

2007-12-18T13:23:00.000-05:00

My nipples are extremely sensitive. my wife knows how sensual and submissive this can make me. My wife that licks and teases the tips of my sexy nipples have "ownership" of me. She loves thoroughly sucking on my nipples and carressing my breasts as if I am a woman.

She pulls and sucks them for me when we make love and it increases the hardness of my cock. One night, my cock got so thick that it ripped her.

I love touching my nipples. Once I get really horny and very very much into it, I pinch them, pull and twist them, the more pain the better.

I would love to get two snakebite kits and am going to use the suction cups in an effort to extend the length and hardness of my nipples. In my fantasy, I have my wife put the suction cups on my nipples, then I get busy eating her pussy first and then giving her a rim job on her anus. Once she is ready to be fucked, she removes my nipple cups,by now they should be swollen which she she began to suck, lick, and bite them. She guided my cock into her and she continues sucking my swollen nipples as I fuck her.

That's enough for now. :)

The 100 point Bondage/Dominance Sadism/Masochism purity test

2007-12-18T12:32:00.000-05:00

Your Bondage/Dominance Sadism/Masochism Purity Test Results
You answered "yes" to 27 of 100 questions, making you 73.0% BDSM pure (27.0% BDSM corrupt); that is, you are 73.0% pure in the BDSM domain.
Your Weirdness Factor (AKA Uniqueness Factor) is 11%, based on a comparison of your test results with 52560 other submissions for this test.

The average purity for this test is 68.5%.
The first submission for this test was received March 3, 1996.

The How Kinky Are You Really Test (click on title to do a test)

2007-12-18T12:16:00.000-05:00

This is my score:

Your Score: Expert

You scored 67% Kinkiness!

You've done all of the positions in most of the books, you've found out about safe-words and understood what I was talking about with the whole safe-sane-consentual. You've probably discovered at least the BDSM sites online, maybe even local groups and have been learning all about your favorite fetish. You enact those fantasies which aren't too taboo and play out in your head during sex the ones you aren't sure how your partner will react. Remember, communication is everything, they can always say no or ask for a compromise. You never know, they might hold the same fantasy in their head, afraid of how you'll react to it.

Link: The How Kinky Are You Really Test written by monkeyqueen9 on OkCupid, home of the The Dating Persona Test

Kilts

2007-12-18T10:49:00.000-05:00

How sexy are the kilts? The word kilt comes from the Scottish word kilt meaning to tuck up the clothes around the body. A Kilt is worn knee socks and sporran - a large pouch used to weigh down the front. Kilts returned to prominence during the romantic revival in the 19th century. The Scottish kilt is a symbol of brave and independent masculinity. Even Sean Connery who is scottish wears a kilt. I understand that women including my wife who find it VERY ATTRACTIVE to see a man wearing a kilt. I ran into some blogs that wives were trying to get their husbands, who is Scottish and trying to get him to wear a kilt for her!

Long time ago, I read a romance book called "Men in Kilts" and I thought it was a good book. (Yes, I like reading romance books, especially when it is very erotic and sensual). The author brilliantly wrote about the time honoured secret of what DOES a Scotsman wear under the kilt? Here's a list of books that are related to Scottish Romance: http://www.angelfire.com/fl2/ebenway/ScottishRomance.html

How many who are reading this find men wearing a kilt very sexy?

My wife likes my private area be shaved.

2007-12-17T14:50:00.001-05:00

"How to" is linked when you click on the "My wife likes my private area be shaved".

I am looking for some articles who to do it without getting cut. On day, I will make sure there would be no interruptions. It was going to be just me, my wife, my penis and balls.

Directions:
Always use a new razor each and every time you shave.

Always moisten the hairs before shaving. Allow the hair to absorb water for about three to 20 minutes in the tub or shower. This plumps up the hair and makes it easier to cut. Always use a shaving cream or rich-lathering soap. This will keep the hairs surrounded by moisture. Using hair conditioner is recommended. It reduces friction and enhances the softening of your skin.

Use a high quality disposable razor. As the scrotum is a difficult area to shave, only stroke in the direction of hair growth to help avoid irritation.

Keep repeat strokes to a minimum. Once you have shaved and rinsed the shaving cream off, towel dry. Apply a high quality moisturizing lotion to your scrotum. That's it.

Shave every other day for the first few weeks then switch to daily. This helps avoid irritation. The area will eventually become used to being shaved however this can take a few days to several weeks. The skin needs time to heal. Be patient. Shave in the direction of hair growth for the first few weeks. The skin needs time to get used to shaving. For a smoother feel shave against the pattern of hair growth, but pay special attention to ingrown hair and irritated follicles. The more often you shave the sooner the area becomes used to shaving. This eventually reduces irritation or even ends it.

Post-Shave - After you’ve finished shaving, lightly rub an ice cube over the skin you shaved to close up your pores and then pat the area dry with a clean towel. Apply a unscented moisturizer to the area to help soothe the freshly shaved skin.

Another "how to" is located here:
Literotica

Don't worry, it only seems kinky the first time. ~Author Unknown

2007-12-17T11:55:00.000-05:00

Keeping sex fresh, interesting and spicy is sometimes the biggest challenge for many couples which therefore, pushing the sexual boundaries are often fun. Everything a couple do together sexually should be building up positively and towards each other. Bounderies is a term that "kinky" basically refers to certian sex acts which are considered unconventional. Kinky is subjective and depends from couple to couple. Getting kinky often adds "that special zing" to our relationship and explores beyond the conventional boundaries of sexual behaviour. I truly believe that everyone has a kinky side which motivates them to go beyond the traditional sexual behavior and discover other sexual preferences and experiment with all that they consider different from the conventional. I have discovered that revealing the kinky side of me opens up doors to sexual expression and pleasure that not only adds spice to my romantic life with my wife, but bonds us more closely that nothing else can. Being kinky means I am exercising my imagination, and I am playing with my wife. We both enjoy sex to the fullest without restraining ourselves.

BDSM and Christian

2007-12-16T16:38:00.000-05:00

This site is an interesting site about the D/s or BDSM lifestyle and Christian faith.

I know one thing, that is, as a Christian, we cannot close our minds to everything that is happening around us because if we do that, others are grieved by burdensome legalism. All beliefs about God are problematic. C.S. Lewis said "You never know how much you really believe anything until truth or falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to you." A humbled Christian is a Christian with flaws which humbles them that is more useful to God than hypocrite action that puffs them up. Christians debating the differences in Christian beliefs and denominations. Faith in Jesus is not commitment to your church or denomination. Truth is often prevented if Christianity is known as a legalistic system which cause a delusion of eternal life. Heresy is not so much rejecting as selecting. The heretic simply selects the parts of the Scripture he or she wants to emphasize and ignore the rest. Almost every cult which we are seeing around us practices this art of selecting and ignoring. Proneness to heresy is not confined to the cults. By nature, we are all heretics. People often unconsciously select for special attention certain Scriptures that they are familiar with that they forget to check to see the Scriptures for deeper study. Lack of balance scripturally is often the direct consequence of overemphasis on certain favorite passages while ignoring others that are related.

We must hold on to the knowledge that all of us are heretics by nature and can never know redeeming truth till we are enlightened and convicted by the Holy Spirit through the Scriptures. What we do a married couple is between husband and wife is privileged and gifted. I will keep this at that for now.

Issues between Faith and specific sexual desire

2007-12-16T16:03:00.000-05:00

Deep thoughts about my personal experience in positive choices that are right for me rather than living a bisexual life. I don't act on it. At times, choosing not to act on those feelings and not embracing can be difficult. I am thankful that I have a wife , who do not seek to force her viewpoint on me, telling me what I "should" do. I just wanted to be aware of alternatives to living a bisexual life that are positive and life-affirming with my own values, morals and beliefs. My wife and I are so compatible with everything in our marriage. We do feel comfortable with our own faiths and do agree in many theological teachings. I DO think that there are many of us who are in similar situation are facing the same situation. I also have my own issues with bisexuality in my Christian faith. Christian faith communities and theological traditions affirming that sexuality is a good gift of God, with a few exceptions that some have judgemental views which can be unChrist-like attitudes or feelings toward an object, person, or action that were contradictory. The love of Jesus is so inclusive that love knows no boundaries. People may be disgusted with of others' beliefs or their lifestyles. Some can often ready to condemn and turn away from them. But not Jesus, He keeps on loving them. During all of 3 years of His ministry, Jesus helped an "unworthy" person more than worthy. The great spiritual needs around us should drive us back to the gospel records of the life and ministry of our Lord Jesus. The best thing we know about our Lord and Savior is that He loves all sinners. He has always love the outcast and for that we should be glad, for I, too, was once an outcast. My main issues are not about religion, or denominations or even Churches. Its about my relationship with God alone. I have seen Christians sinned and we have to be careful how we define sin because the major cause of Christians sinning is the "HEART". I often try explaining this issue with my wife and she feels that God's love is not conditional. I agree with that.

My personal spiritual issue is this: His love is NOT conditional but rather unconditional in terms of understanding what He desires more than I desire. In terms of my understanding of God's Holiness, Christians' standards. If God was in a church meeting today to discuss a moral change within the local church, how would we react? Would God change His holiness in order to accept what WE think what should be? This is one of my one of my many struggles is dealing with my faith in God (NOT religion or Church). What does it mean to become like Jesus Christ? That is the REAL question. There are so many who will proclaim to be a Christian but only few are really Christians. There are millions of professing Christians who "think" they have been justified, who think their sins are forgiven and that they are on their way to heaven, who show no evidence of the regenerating work of the Holy Spirit in their lives. Many Christians are unthinkably horrified when a real sinner is suddenly discovered among the righteous. So we remain alone with our sin, living in lies and hypocrisy.

Now I feel better and bringing this out. I would like to come back to this as needed when I am feeling this way. I believe this blog will help me. Unlike most men who don't confess to their wives, I am able to accept as I am. There is hope for me husband and my marriage. Many men with those issues keep them secret.

One thing I am thankful for God's blessings in our marriage. Sex is a gift from God and I am happily married and sexually satisfied being with my wife, best friend and sex partner. It's important for us to negotiate how we are going to talk about our sexual relationship together. To talk honestly about our sexuality, sexual preferences, fears, feelings about our bodies, struggles, joys. This is REAL intimacy, deep friendship with trust and faithfulness. God made us and our brains are our MAIN sexual organ. Fantasizing is part of our being when the most important sexual organ is our brain. Our brain is the source of what's happening that affects our responses physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The main biblical teaching about sex my within marriage is this: Never lose track of the real goal of sex—a God-reflective connection with my wife. God is a playful God, but He always connects with us spiritually. We can play but, at the same time, keep the connection real. Christian lovemaking should be the most passionate, erotic, playful and super-satisfying expression of sexuality known to humankind. This is because our sexuality is a powerful gift of the Creator.

When it comes to sex such as erotica, erotic stories, porn and etc, the key is marital trust and bondedness whenever images of other individuals are introduced for sexual entertainment or arousal. We are at that level. :)

Another fantasy of mine :)

2007-12-15T21:11:00.000-05:00

I am glad that my wife find stories of bi-sexual men erotic and she loves to hear my bi fantasies. One day she had left for work and I was online and I ran into a married guy who is bi-curious. We chatted for a little while and we share what we have in common. We share our fantasies and what we would do to each other if we act on it (which we won't). My wife gets excited when I tell her what we chatted about and even save some conversations for her to read. Her pussy gets wet reading and hearing the stories. I am glad she wants to fantatize me having sex with other men.

With that thought in mind. This is one of my fantasies: It was my birthday and she had surprises in mind for me. A very special birthday treat, by arranging a guy to come and give me a massage. Anyway, this massager came over and set up the massage table and had me get up on it on my stomach. My wife had me stripped naked. Then the messager poured oil over my back and began to massage while my wife stood by and watched. The messager had moved from massaging my upper back right down to my thighs. My wife spoke up (as usual), "What about his butt? Aren't you going to massage his butt too? Let me see you massage that nice, hard, tight ass of my husband's." He massaged each buttock in an outward motion which had the effect of spreading apart my buttocks and revealing my asshole. This turns on my wife as well as my massager. My spoke her mind, "Mmmmmmh, I love to lick his ass."

He made me turn over to lie on my back which revealed my hardon. He ignored it of course but not my wife. She was grinning. He oiled up my chest and started massaging down towards my cock. Of course, he missed his spot when my wife asked "what about his beautiful cock?". He listened to her and gave me a good cock message before going down to my thighs.

As soon as he was done, my wife said to him "You've given my husband a wonderful external massage today. But it's his birthday today, so why don't we give him a treat? Something special, something he's never had before from a real man. How about you give him an internal massage now? " He answered "yes" with a big smile and took his clothes off. Once I saw his body and his cock, I got really turned on. Nice, huh?" My wife said to me "He's going to give you a real deep massage with this special tool of his, a rectal massage, I know you like those. That's going to be your very special birthday treat, honey. But first how about you taste this big beautiful cock, baby. Open your mouth wide for me." She was holding on to the cock and she guided my mouth towards his cock. My wife got really wet when she watched my lips engulf the cock and begin to suck it. Her heart raced as she took in the stunning sight, her husband sucking a cock right in front of her.

Then my wife got some lubing into my crack, she worked one, two and three fingers up my butt and reamed me out to get ready for a hard cock. She made me stop sucking and she pulled his cock away from me. She put on a condom and poured a little lubing right onto his rigid shaft and rubbed it all, hard surface until his cock was all slick and glossy. She took hold of a guy's lubed cock and guided it between my cheeks, into my exposed crack. To my wife, that sight looked so deliciously, almost obscenely ready, laying there, ass up, reaching back eagerly to hold that ass wide open for for my first real fuck. She rubbed the tip of the cock against the slippery ridge of my asshole. The sight of that just about drove her crazy! Soon, my wife guided the guy to push slowly slid his cock up my ass. "Happy birthday, sweetheart," she said to me the guy pumped my ass fast and furious, slamming the full thick length of his shaft up my bottom as I pushed back greedily against deep thrusts.

After the guy had gone, my wife spread my legs wide and urged me to enter her. Her pussy was so wet and ready. My cock was rock hard and I was very eager to fuck. We both got so turned on by having me fucked by another's guy cock. "Happy birthday, baby!", as my cock filled her to the hilt and she added "cum inside me, hon". I came and crashed.

Blogging

2007-12-15T20:28:00.000-05:00

I enjoy typing about my thoughts. This makes me think, ponder and then make more comments. I read somewhere that about 99% of blogs are unreadable which is probably true. This blog is probably a good place to place my private thoughts and knowning that hardly anyone reads this. If they do read this blog, I feel bad for them. This blog is nothing but boring about my own thoughts and desires.

Book I want to read someday

2007-12-15T16:05:00.000-05:00

Bi Guys: Firsthand Fiction for Bisexual Men and Their Admirers

"Ron Suresha's splendid volume joins earlier work . . . in revealing the
all-but-forgotten desires of bisexuals. These stimulating stories will
satisfy the erotic needs of pretty much all readers. But these stories are
not only entertaining. They introduce to a wide readership a range of
bisexual issues and emotions not normally addressed in literature, straight
or gay. And they deal with these issues positively - with the seriousness
and clarity they deserve". - David van Leer, Journal of Bisexuality

Story: Birthday Surpirse

2007-12-15T15:16:00.000-05:00

As I was undressing for bed, I just took off my shirt as my wife said "Happy Birthday, hon", she she ran her finger across my lips, down to my nipple and pinched it lightly. She kissed me and rubbed my cock lightly through my pants. Then she said, "remember that movie we saw the other night about being tied up?", I answered, "yes?". She asked if she could tie me to the bed. She said the scene from the movie had really turned her on. I nodded "yes" because I know that is what she wanted. Then she handed me a glass of wine and said, "Please drink so you can relax".

I drank and soon I was feeling good. When my wife noticed I am feeling good, she made me lie down on the bed and spread out. She tied me up by my wrists and ankles. Then she played with my nipples by licking, kissing and pinching them as one of her hands grabbed my balls really tight. She put her head up and asked "Do you like that?". I nodded "yes". Then she said, "Good, you are going to lick my pussy and make me wet". She straddled into 69 position by sitting on my face and I began licking. She began teasing my cock with her hand, stroking it up and down, slowly at first, then at a faster pace. Then she said "I love sucking your cock and feel your cock throb. This excites me to know that you are enjoying yourself and that I am in complete control.

Then she got up and sat down on my cock by easing my cock into her wet pussy. Then she said there, put her hand on her clit and started rubbing it. She is soaking my cock and she grinding deeper into my cock faster and harder. Her juices running down on my cock and onto my balls which I can tell that she is about to have strong orgasms. Then she said, "Please cum inside me now" and then I came really hard.

After my wife recovered, she got up and cleaned my cock. She said she noticed that I am fully satisfied which I replied with an "yes". She said, "Good, because this cock belongs to me and I am going to secure it". I noticed she going to put on this "chastity cage" and she said, you are going to wear this so you can remind yourself that your cock belongs to me only. She grabbed the tip of my penis and said "this belongs to me!"

To be continued..................

Quotes relating to BDSM

2007-12-15T14:56:00.000-05:00

"SM is an art. Doing it well requires more than a bag full of expensive whips and exotic electrical toys, a closet full of fetish clothes, or a basement filled with bondage furniture." Pat Califia

When you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing Me, things will be very easy for you - Anne Rice

The body is both a pleasure palace and a torture chamber - Charles Levin

"In our fantasies, no matter how much we struggle to deny it, we control every frame. Whether we are standing tall in thigh-high boots or are breathless on our knees is simply a matter of our well-lubricated position." Susie Bright

"Bondage for me is freedom because I can let go of responsibility." Unknown

"Without a real urge to submit, there is no way to truly feel what a submissive feels." Unknown

"Having topped, I am a better bottom, and having bottomed, I am a better top." Steve Vakesh, from "Why I Switch" in Sandmutopian Guardian 30 (1998).

"Whipping is fifty percent show and noise." Anne Rice

Bisexual and Friendship without Sex

2007-12-15T14:00:00.000-05:00

I am married and my wife knows about my secret desires. I get hard thinking about getting laid by a man but I am keeping this as a dream, not a reality. Coming out bisexual is no easy matter and so far my wife and one of my daughters knows about me. I am very much interested in looking for friendship with married men who are also bisexual without getting into sex. Just my thought for today. :)

I found this blog interesting

2007-12-15T13:25:00.000-05:00

It is a blog for an erotic discussions and explorations of F/M strap-on. Lately, I have been having fantasies about my wife using a strap-on and take me.

How to Buy Strap-on

2007-12-15T11:14:00.000-05:00

We are looking for a place in Central Ohio that sells: Shorts Harness Resembling a pair of bicycle pants, these "shorts" have a front cutout for a dildo. An example is a picture below.

This is one of my turn-on pictures.

BDSM

2007-12-15T10:07:00.000-05:00

I am fairly new to BDSM but I have had an interest in BDSM off and on for many years. I believe BDSM is more acceptable in the mainstream than ever in the past. People are getting less fidgety about BDSM after watching movies such as "The Secretary". If you go to a local bookstore, you will find many fiction erotic books relating to BDSM. All I have been doing is research. When I met my wife, she was involved in BDSM and now we both are trying to figure out where we are in BDSM. I know it takes a while to acknowledge and accept our own interests. Currently, we are doing some BDSM without even trying. We are simply following our desires and passions sexually. I do know for sure that we both prefer BDSM be only in the bedroom, not our marriage. We both desire "normal" life, with hugs, kisses, going out, being nice to each other and enjoy each other's company. We can enjoy being "nice" for most of time while being nasty in the bedroom. We want to have a normal marriage and sex is just our "sanctuary of love" that we can enjoy explore, have fun and have some great orgasms. This is what I think I heard called "bedroom BDSM," meaning the power exchange stops at the bedroom door because with bedroom BDSM, the power exchange is limited to sex only, it doesn't effect other areas of our lives.

I believe we both are "switch" meaning we play either or both roles. We both are neither 100% dominant nor 100% submissive. We both enjoy playing both roles. Our boundaries are limited in BDSM. I enjoy little pain which is a type of physical stimulation that incorporates feeling of both pleasure and pain. I enjoy nipple play/torture which is the stimulation of the nipples for corporal erotic purposes which includes: sucking, pinching, clamping, fire and ice, or piercing. For me, I don't think I will accept fire or piercing. We both enjoy mild spanking.

I love being handled by my wife. She wants the same from me. I remember reading a quote from an BDSM author Lady Green, "If you ain't havin' fun, you ain't doin' it right."

One of my fantasies :)

2007-12-08T18:09:00.001-05:00

When I was done eating dinner, my wife asked me if I would take a shower for her before we got into more intimate things. Because she said that she needed some time to prepare a surprise for me. I'd do whatever she wanted, for me to do what she wanted.Before I left for the shower, she decided that I needed just a bit more teasing. She slowly undressed me while kissing every inch of my body. When I was eventually allowed to head towards the shower, she made sure to smack my ass extra hard as I was leaving the room

After showing, as I was drying myself off, I noticed a pile of something on the bench outside our bathroom. As I got closer, it turned out to be a pair of leather thong underwear, a bow tie, and a note. The note read:"Honey,Tonight will be special because I will be in charge. You will only do what I tell you to do. You will obey my every command. You will be my slave, and I will be your master. You will meet me in living room, wearing your new underwear and the tie that I have left you."How could anyone resist and offer like that? I gave myself a really close shave, including my pubic area, and before leaving the bathroom, I made sure that my tie was on straight and that I was prepared for whatever she may demand. I was going to be the best damn submissive man in the world.My wife had on a pair of high heels that completely transformed her image from sexy wife, to a no nonsense dominatrix. Knowing the rules, I dropped to my knees with my head bowed and asked her how she would like me to please her. When she looked down, she said: "Your manhood is hard as a rock. Are we to do anything about that? Yes, my dear, I am a dominatrix. You are my husband, my man, and that will never change. You have to trust me."She sat down on the couch and had me crawl over and put my head in her lap. She stroked my hair, and thanked me for agreeing to be her slave for the evening. Clarifying the rules further she told me that I could end the night at any time by saying the phrase "Game over".

She had me crawl up on her lap and arch my ass high up into the air where it received good smacks with her whip, each hit as it stung my ass. I was order to count loud enough, then that smack didn't count and she would do it again. My ass was no doubt red, but, it didn't hurt as much as it made me realize that she was in charge, and that I would actually let her do anything she wanted.When she was done, she then instructed me to stand up, in front of her, and start pleasuring myself with my hands. Feeling my own balls and manhood has always been a turn on for both of us. My wife made my manhood even `harder' when she started lightly whipping me and pinching my nipples. Soon, she ordered me to stop and leading me to the bed by my hair, she ordered me to laid on the bed where she tied my hands to the headboard with cuffs. "I'll be right back sweetheart. Give me one second, ok?" she laughed, "Well, it looks like you don't have a choice, do you?"

When she came back, she said “Honey, seeing you all chained up and lusting for me is making me so wet. I'm so glad you let me play this little game with you.” She climbed up between my legs and then grasping my manhood she started to stroke again. She was stroking me for a long time until I pleading with her to please let me cum. She would stroke me for a while then use her mouth to suck my manhood just to keep me on the edge and driving me further into depths of submission to her.

She stopped and taking her hand she started fingering her own wet vagina, then showing me her soaking wet fingers. She put her fingers up to my nose so I could smell her which drove me even crazy. Then, she moved and got up from the bed. The look on her face was one of ecstasy and pleasure; she truly enjoyed the vision of me, her husband, tied up, struggling to get free. I was getting frustrated and excited. She asked, "What's wrong baby? If you want to, just say the safe word. No?" she giggled.

She began to stroke my manhood until I was going to cum any second. Finally as my breath increased and got louder, she stopped. She did that over and over, getting me on the brink of having an orgasm and then stopping abruptly. She is enjoying this every minute. She was taunting me by saying "Oh, poor baby, does my slave need to cum?”

Then she walked into the walk-in closet and shut the door. I was wondering what she was up to. Then she came out and said “Your ass is mine.” I looked down between her legs and saw it was a strap-on dildo. While it didn't look enormous, it was intimidating enough with the fake veins and realness it portrayed. As she walked towards me, she bobbed her fake manhood up and down, as if to test its rigidity. She was very pleased with it.

She rubbed my ass cheeks and smacked my ass with the back of her hand. She said, "Behind every husband is a wife...with a strap on! More women should do this to their husbands. Ok, lover, time to spread those ass cheeks." She put my legs over my head and cuffed tightly to the head board, moved into position just in front of my ass and started to lube my anus. She said “You're all mine, lover and your ass is mine.” After lubing, she slid her fake manhood inside my ass, she finally passed a resistant barrier and buried it all the way in, up to its hilt. "Take it, lover. Take my fake manhood," she told me lustfully. She started riding me as I started moaning with pleasure. The inside of the strap on harness, there is a special toy that was rubbing against her vagina and clitoris, which was helping her to achieve orgasm. She kept pounding me by shoving deeper inside, making me moan with pleasure, holding me by the hips and thrusting it deep inside me. She reached forward and began stroking my manhood and said “Don’t cum until I cum first”. Grabbing my hips, she rocked me back and forth. Thrusting deeper. Making sure those special toys attached to the strap-on is touching her special spots so she can have a powerful orgasm. Then she screamed as she came; the sight of my hard manhood dancing was enough as she thrusted me to send her over the edge. Then she yelled “cum for me” as she was taking my manhood, she stroked and stroked. Soon, I came and shot my hot cum upon on chest and face. My wife smiled and love seeing me cum all over my face. Then she slowly taking her fake manhood out of me, she leaned forward and kissed on my cheek and said “That belongs to me”.

Thoughts on Same-sex fantasies

2007-12-03T17:02:00.000-05:00

Same-sex fantasies or threesome fantasies involving another man are extremely common and don't mean you've got a secret wish to be gay. It just means you're sexually curious.

Sexual Intimacy Quiz

2007-12-03T17:00:00.000-05:00

Measure Your Capacity for Sexual Intimacy

You scored 95 out of a possible 100 points.
You have a highly-developed capacity for the delicate exchange of intimate thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Be aware that the nature of intimacy changes over the lifespan, and continue to lead with your heart.

I am glad that I scored good in this quiz.

Lovemaking Style Quiz

2007-12-03T14:50:00.000-05:00

I took this quiz just for fun and this is the result of my quiz:

What's Your Best Style of Lovemaking?
By taking this quiz, you have learned about three styles of lovemaking:
Sexual Trance: Your mind is focused on your physical sensations.
Partner Engagement: You focus on "making love," bonding, and deepening your emotional connection.
Role Play: You and your partner share fantasies and enact roles together. Understanding and using these styles will help you achieve a more varied and active sex life, one that contributes to the health and longevity of your marriage or long-term relationship.
You scored 70 out of a possible 100 points. You know a bit about different sexual styles, and you probably experience some of the benefits of sexual variety and experimentation, but there's more sexual potential available if you choose to explore it. If you do, don't give up: balance perseverance with generosity of spirit.
Source: ThirdAge Inc. (Click link on "Title" above)

More on Fantasies

2007-12-03T00:02:00.000-05:00

Fantasies play enormous influences over our sexual behaviour which is why we often hear the phrase "the brain is the largest sex organ".

If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities. Maya Angelou

We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality. Iris Murdoch

Marriage and Sharing Sexual Fantasies

2007-12-02T23:22:00.000-05:00

Sexual fantasies play an important role in the happiness of each married couples' sexual lives. Discussing sexual fantasies does lend itself to excitement. Sharing fantasies can be liberating because sharing fantasies can increase trust and intimacy in most married couples. However, to some couples, it can also be risky and may cause more problems. Why? One main possibility is that one spouse may not be open-minded. Fantasies are extremely personal and there are risks involved in disclosing them, especially to someone you care for.

Sexual fantasies are defined as, "any erotic or sexually arousing mental imagery that a person has while awake. It can be an elaborate story, or it can be a fleeting thought of some sexual activity" http://honors.csustan.edu/journals/SexInStone/Miranda&Medeiros.pdf

I have learned that lack of communication is often the primary cause of unhappiness within the marriage. Often when one spouse doesn’t know how the other really feels because there has been no direct discussion of sex. When discussing sex, be open and let your mate know that you’re talking about something very important to you. You never know what your spouse likes unless you talk. Most of my fantasies are so compatible with my wife's fantasies, including my bisexual fantasies. In order to have a warm, joyful, fulfilling relationship in which shared experiences encourage mutual growth and happiness is being open-minded with loving care heart. Confide all of who you really are. No masks. Share everything, including your wildest fantasies. Fantasies aren’t good or bad and there should be no judgment involved. Having a wild fantasy doesn’t mean it has to be expressed in reality. In order to have a wonderful exclusive and monogamy sexual relationship, we are to feel free sexually and feel sexual without restrictions.

My First Post

2007-12-02T13:50:00.000-05:00

I am one of those bisexuals who commits to one person while still attracted to other men and women, but do not act on any attraction except my wife. There is no simple definition of bisexuality, and bisexual people are a very diverse group. I am what some experts call "latent bisexual" which means I am completely straight in behavior but have strong desire for sex with another gender, but have never acted on it. I truly believe that there are more "latent bisexuals" out there than any other kinds of bisexual natures. The key to successful marriages are far more likely when there is complete honesty, respect and a level of compassion for each other.